09-04-06

怎样嫁个有钱人?

怎样嫁个有钱人?

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09-04-06
美国女孩的信:

   What am I doing wrong?

   Okay, I'm tired of beating around the bush. I'm a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I'm articulate and classy. I'm not from New York. I'm looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City , so I don't think I'm overreaching at all.

   Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 100 - 150. But that's where I seem to hit a roadblock. 150,000 won't get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she's not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level?

   Here are my questions specifically:

   - Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics- bars, restaurants, gyms

   -What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won't hurt my feelings

   -Is there an age range I should be targeting (I'm 25)?

   - Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? I've seen really 'plain jane' boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I've seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What's the story there?

   - Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out?

   - How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY

   Please hold your insults - I'm putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I'm being up front about it. I wouldn't be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn't able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.




有钱人的回应:

   Dear Pers-:

   I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament. Firstly, I'm not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said here's how I see it.

   Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here's why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here's the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity...in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful!

   So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you're 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!

   So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold...hence the rub...marriage. It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) so I'd rather lease. In case you think I'm being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It's as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.

   Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as "articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful" as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard tobelieve that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn't found you, if not only for a tryout.

   By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn't need to have this difficult conversation.

   With all that said, I must say you're going about it the right way. Classic "pump and dump."
   I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know.

   ____________
   Rob Campbell
   J.P.Morgan
   Diversified Industrials Investment Banking
   277 Park Avenue, 16/F, New York , NY 10172参考资料:http://urbanlegends.about.com/od/sex/a/gold_digger.htm
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09-04-06
首先不管他是不是有钱 只要他是人 就有人性 也就是说他也有失落 有痛苦 如果能抓住这一点 那么首先就成为了知己 其次人是有自我优势的 要证明自己如果成为太太的话能给丈夫带来什么 而这一点只有你能作到 别人是做不到的 这样基本就可以...详细的内容去咨询心理专家
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09-04-06
有钱人很难嫁,人家要求高。而且嫁给有钱人还不一定幸福。
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09-04-06
你为什么一定要嫁个有钱人呢?你要是想加个有钱人那么你自己的条件也要够高才行,要不你就要有眼光,能发现潜力股
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09-04-06
干嘛一定要嫁有钱人....有钱人不一定看得上你  你不一定适合过有钱的生活!
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09-04-06
去找份秘书或助理的工作,把男人勾引到手
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